they came from out the woodwork.

There is this phenomenon called people known as the "out of the woodwork" Now this is open to those you "could have messed with but shut you down" to those who "had to leave" or "did wrong" by you. It is not gender prejudice, its not racially specific, it just happens. And its retarted. Now its reasoning behind it is unknown but even einstein couldn't have denied that it happens. Whenever you're with someone these people seem to portray their names and come straight out the woodwork. The past you had tries to come into play again. Yours truly has the ablility to claim, with proof, that only one man she's ever had dealt with would NOT come back. 99% success rate regardless of how it ended? Thats not bad, but on to the general.

These are those that set out to see where you at, found you after searching, or have been watching you and now that you're with someone else they think they can do better than that person. Even though they had their shot and lost out, they believe they have a right to try again. OR are just set out to try their best to destroy you again. Why they do what they do is not really concreted, but it seems like life sends them onto your path like a test. See just how deep your relationship is, see how over them you really are.

Im getting married in less than 130 days and they be coming from everywhere, luckily my fiancee was my friend for 3 years prior, so as friends i told him everything. He knows about them, and together we watch them try, even without him around they approach, but I am not one of those women anymore that lets the past walk over me like a doormat, I rarely give a second chance. Im too open with my feelings and needs to need a second shot. So why they keep trying, i chalk it up to the phenomenon, nothing more, nothing less. Theres those idiots that ask if im serious about this man, while looking at my 1.5 carats on my hand. Oblivious is not the word. But the attempts have ranged from straight disrespectful that reminds me why im not with them to the hilarious, like they high and mighty STILL. its a phenom i dont understand and i am not going to try. i just sit back and laugh, where are these folks when youre single, why they always gotta come when you wit someone? lol.