"Dont feel defeated cause, trust me you can build it..."

How would you comfort a woman who used to have everything set, independent, 2 jobs, not a worry in the world. Now facing an enormous panic attack approaching the next bill with empty pockets. How do you let that woman know that you are unconditional when all those who have every supposedly have been there to carry with her, only buried her with every form of abuse known to Webster himself.Could you ever learn to read this woman's body language without taking it to offense? What do you tell her to say to the woman in the mirror when she feels in adequate to one who shouldn't be worth a minuscule thought. What if you fall in love with her, the woman she still cant see? How do you show this true queen that she can rebuild her kingdom, with or without society, she can regain and surpass any plateau she ever reached before? Do you know how to allow yourself to try to relate? Can you truly put your own comfort zone aside to help her, even though you cant relate in your reality? Could you remain that same friend, even after she returns to that "abuse" comfort zone. OR would you have reached your own breaking point and walk away. Would you be able to tolerate all the self abuse, be able to help her break the learned helplessness? Can you honestly stand by as she remains, even in the slightest bit, to beat herself down? Everything she does to push you away is not intentional, but it does just that, pushes you away. Would you still be willing to stand there, even though at times, you are completely invisible to her? What if that woman had a child, an innocent soul, guided by a lost one. Would you be able to still stand by, or would you hold it against her. "She repeated the pattern that brought her to this point."If given the same glasses that she sees things through, would you be able to bring yourself to see the same. Try to understand it from her view? Inside every damaged woman is a queen waiting to be re-revealed. Concreting her pedestal from within is not always easy. Would you be one of those unconditional ones growing, going down that path with her. Solidarity is vital like breathing to all "inner royalty."